May 9, 2023
What do I mean by Pivoting in life, career, love/relationships, money/finances, and that is greater?
It’s about adapting, improving, or modifying a fundamental change in your life and not because of failure.
Shifting your sense of identity, who you are at present, and who your future self will be.
Pivoting also involves accepting some things and shifting others.
No one’s life journey is a straight road. We have roadblocks and detours, and knowing when to pivot is the key to keeping our life’s “flow” forward.
Mid-life may be the prime time to pivot, but not necessarily. It can happen in any decade of our life.
I and many others have learned since the pandemic that we must adapt to changes out of our control. However, we can control the decisions we make.
Pivots are necessary for the mind, body, and spirit when in an unhealthy or unhappy situation.
It may be scary, but the “POWER of the PIVOT” will move you out of your comfort zone, and you will learn to trust your gut intuition.
It will force you out of resistance and dissatisfaction………….. into feeling SO GOOD that you are taking this new direction!
5 Steps to “Pivoting to Reinvent Your Life:
- Accessing the “WHY or WHERE” you are unsatisfied? Life, Career, Love/Relationships
- Acknowledging the “TRUTH” of what you “Want.” Life, Career, Love/Relationships
- Taking Personal Responsibility to ask for what you want.
(I’m going to share the Steps for Deeper Work:)
- Step Back – What do you want most of or less of? Where do you feel challenged?
- Let Go – What is stopping you? What would things look life look like if you resolved this problem?
- Say “YES” to Self – What feelings and sensations are you experiencing in this version of yourself? What advice would you give your future self (3 months from now)?
- Take Empowered Action – On a scale of 1-10, how committed are you to have this difference? What is one small step you can take today toward moving forward?
- Set Up Accountability – Is there someone in your life that inspires you to reach higher, or is there someone in your community to further your commitment?
4. Being willing to actually “RECEIVE” what you want!
- You must commit to it with your mind and heart open. It may be scary at first, but so rewarding.
5. Develop Resilience
- Pivoting does not happen overnight.
- It starts with Mindset and the decision to say “YES.”
- “Ride the Wave” of being in alignment when you start the flow.
- Embrace any failures and grow from the experiences.
Choose to be happy in your LIFE. It should be “non-negotiable.”
Focus on the positive aspects of life rather than the negatives.
Life can be too short of having the “should haves,” “could haves,” and “would haves” as part of your legacy.
“Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.”
ralph Marston
It may be time to discover what matters to you the most.
Being stuck in an uncomfortable situation (Life, Career, or Relationship) can make you feel anxious, overwhelmed, frustrated, or even alone.
A good coach can help you work through stuckness to PIVOT to become your best self in your next phase of life………….
to help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and develop strategies for overcoming barriers………….
helping you make the decisions and providing the support you need to achieve long-lasting transformation, one small habit change at a time.
So, are you ready to make a LIFE PIVOT? Life is too short not to have a life you love.
JUST DO IT!
Until next time, Trust your Truth, and STOP MISSING YOUR LIFE. Be ready to PIVOT, and remember to do it with AGE-GILITY!